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I am a woman and I get bored of relationships easily: Do you have the audacity to accept this?

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Our generation gets bored of relationship easily and I wouldn’t say that this is an irony or something morally wrong. It is just human behaviour which evolved with time.

I am a young independent girl high on ambitions and I do have a thing for travelling the world and most importantly exploring the world.

Having said that I too get bored of relationships easily because I don’t want to get stagnant at one place for long!

Maybe sometime in life, I would look forward to settling down in life and have a family, of course, that would be a beautiful feeling but that some time is surely not coming anytime before I am done contending my aspirations and my dreams.

At this point in my life, I either want to work very hard for my ambitions or explore and travel. There is no third alternative.

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I would not call myself a feminist per se for feminism as construed and presented by people seems like something totally baffled. So, I would just be happy to call myself the modern day bold Indian woman who wants to maintain a distance from clichés and things which are otherwise too obvious to the world. I don’t want to commit myself to a long-term relationship and jibe about eternity with some guy only when I have lived only one-fourth of my life yet.

I don’t want to commit myself to a long-term relationship and jibe about eternity with some guy only when I have lived only one-fourth of my life yet.

I want to meet new people, keep meeting new people and make new friends or new interests and in such a scenario I am bound to get bored of my relationships soon for my quest in life would always be about something new.

I am ok with you judging me here you can call me a slut or whatever suits your judgmental brains because my abstract of life is anything but influenced by apprehensions of “log kya kahenge”

Why would I want to be in a serious relationship and talk about togetherness for forever when I don’t even want to spare a thought of settling down in life? In fact how many of those who talk highly about love or togetherness actually end up being together?

This is nothing but an uncalled drag of expectations which are bound to crash one day. People don’t get it to their heads and hence keep juggling with but when I have understood this why should I act dumb too? I don’t want to spend my journey with only one person. Is this asking for too much from life?

To conclude my objective here is not to ridicule the very notion of love or people who believe in love. When did I say that I don’t believe in love? Of course, I do but I just presented a viewpoint wherein I said that it is ok if you want love in your life to wait and till then just be with different people and explore life. It is your life and you have the right to!

It is ok to be bored of relationship if it goes too long and hence walks out and walk into another one! Why care about what people would say? You are the master of your happiness or you can only later choose to regret. Be honest to yourself and even to others! It is ok to choose new skies to fly in each time you wish to fly! More power to women who have the temerity to accept this for life is only as helpless as you make of it!

Why care about what people would say? You are the master of your happiness or you can only later choose to regret. Be honest to yourself and even to others! It is ok to choose new skies to fly in each time you wish to fly! More power to women who have the temerity to accept this for life is only as helpless as you make of it!

You are the master of your happiness or you can only later choose to regret. Be honest to yourself and even to others! It is ok to choose new skies to fly in each time you wish to fly! More power to women who have the temerity to accept this for life is only as helpless as you make of it!

More power to women who have the temerity to accept this for life is only as helpless as you make of it!

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